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Neurodivergent 1w
the best thing i ever did for myself was stop being friends with people who refuse to even try to get better
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Anonymous 1w

i understand that not everyone has access to therapy, etc. but there’s still things you can do in your own time to improve, like self reflection, acknowledging where you’ve done wrong, stuff like that and being around people who were miserable all the time and ESP when they made it everyone’s problem was so tiring. esp when they HAD access to therapy.

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Anonymous 1w

fully agree

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

and they were the kinds to constantly moan about not having friends while also saying HORRIBLE shit to me, constantly self sabotaging and then crying to me about it even when i tried to give advice and help then being mean after, stuff like that. then they wondered why i and other people got sick of them. bc it’s exhausting to be around and i started to actually fucking hate them bc they were mean and when they weren’t mean they were miserable.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

like idk man i’ve been in the place of i needed therapy and was tiring but i heard that i was tiring and i got help. i worked on myself until i could get into therapy. yeah it sucks but it also sucks to be a miserable leech. and i’ve been mean before but never as consistently as they were and i apologized and didn’t do it again, and they NEVER apologized for it EVER just blamed it on smth and moved on and kept doing it. like come on. you can’t be surprised you don’t have friends.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

i can be friends w ppl who are trying to get help, bc they’re trying and apologizing and getting better. but idk acting like that then saying u have no idea? you do. there’s ppl that don’t have friends through no fault of their own and you CANNOT claim that’s you if you’ve been told over and over and over again that smth upsets me or others and you keep doing it. idk man it sucks bc i do love them but i can’t be around ppl like that bc it’s so tiring and makes me feel awful.

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