
What does hotness have to do with talent or interest? Like “hotness” is super subjective and if a rando is going to try and put you down they’ll try to do it whether or not they think you’re hot. Actually they’re more likely to do it if they think you are because the people that want to put down others are insecure and they want those they’re jealous of to be just as insecure. Do you hun, stop hiding to make randos feel better. They’ll be mean either way, but if you’re confident
Idk if I’m hot but I have been assumed to be a sorority girl (and the top one at that) plus other assumptions of being intimidating or a bitch or something which tends to point to the fact that i’m probably attractive. All that to say is it’s actually worse. People assume you’re a bland neurotypical person (not saying neurotypical ppl are bland, just listing 2 adjectives) and that you’d be someone to make fun of more nerdy interests.
They’ll feel like the jealous shit stains they are rather than powerful. Have fun and be you because you’ll die at some point anyway. When you do you can either remember the fun you had or the chances you missed, who tf cares what a shit stain thinks when they can be having a blast living instead? Let them choke on their misery. You don’t have to.
So combine that with social anxiety, and no one knows how nerdy I am about so many things. I think it’s worse for “hot” people bc they get placed in a box that assumes how they act and what they like. I will say online there seems to be plenty of”hot” autistic people that are sharing their interests without shame but there’s plenty of “not hot” people who do the same. I think we both deal with some kind of confidence issue or internal shame or something so hopefully we can both be ourselves 🫶🏼