Anonymous #5 4w

If you’re extremely lucky, maybe.

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Anonymous #2 4w

one day you will be able to appreciate what makes you, you love. there will never be two of you. there will never be a person that meets you and forgets you because of that. we were born different, set apart, and that in and of itself is a gift. 🫂

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Anonymous #2 4w

trust me tho i know the hell of frustration it takes to get where i’m at tho and i fully understand. but i promise you it does get better.

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Anonymous #5 4w

Thank god there won’t be. I wouldn’t wish this life on my worst enemy.

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Anonymous #2 4w

And trust me: not even my coworkers notice when I’m gone. It’s more “there will never be a person that *doesn’t* forget me because of that”.

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Anonymous #2 4w

i honestly know how you feel and i can feel it in my bones , i’ve been there. i’m sorry love. DMs are open if you need anything.

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Anonymous #5 4w

I appreciate it, but just enjoy what I can’t have for me. 🫂 I’m too far gone to get that.

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Anonymous #2 4w

the first step is not talking like that ever again. words are so powerful and everything you say is being heard by ur subconscious, you become what you believe

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Anonymous #2 4w

second step is to let go of every negative belief about yourself, every day is a new day. you would not believe the transformation i had in the past year. i was SEVERELY depressed, i couldnt get out of bed, i got bed sores and my muscles atrophied, and now i have genuine moments where im so overwhelmed with gratitude for the world and for my second chance at life. it is ALWAYS possible i promise. the first step is letting yourswlf believe that. trust

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Anonymous OP 4w

and nothing changed in my life except what i believed. in fact id say i have more to be upset about now than back then, it just doesnt bring me down as much as it used to. a big part of it was maybe my frontal lobe developing as i got older, but mainly just the way i let myself think about things. its a long process but just start with being nicer to yourself. i promise it goes a LONG way

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Anonymous OP 4w

I FEEL THIS AND SECOND THIS SO HEAVY. and honestly, again, i can feel their pain in my bones. i absolutely DO get it. i genuinely didn’t think id be here long enough to write this post. when you’ve been stuck on that loop for so long and nobody taught you differently, it does feel impossible to get out of it. but there is nothing anyone can say that will ever convince me that their human soul isn’t worthy of being loved. i deeply understand what this person is going through.

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Anonymous OP 4w

“just start with being nicer to yourself” is honestly the one thing anyone could take away from this discussion and it would change their life.

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Anonymous #5 4w

If I may add on. Sometimes, being nice to yourself is hard. But it’s easy to be sarcastically mean to yourself. Like if you trip saying “wow I’m so graceful” instead of “I’m so clumsy” cause your subconscious doesn’t get sarcasm, and over time you’ll actually start believing good things abt yourself. Fun brain hack :)

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Anonymous #1 4w

YES. YES. YES. This is literally what helped me 😭❤️

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Anonymous #1 4w

yesss the sarcastic meanness was my first step too!!! and every time i caught myself thinking/saying smth negative about myself i made myself to “reps” of positive things the opposite to cancel it out. so if i said i hate my life, id have to say i LOVE my life 10 times, even if i didnt mean it yet

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Anonymous #6 4w

It’s like I’m romanticizing the idea of love

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Anonymous OP 4w

I didn’t become what I believed, I became what every human being who interacted with me told me I was, because it was more painful to prove them wrong.

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Anonymous OP 4w

People like you have a chance. It’s too late for me. Do what I cannot, and run.

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Anonymous #2 4w

i get it, theres a sort of comfort in talking like that. makes you almost romanticize the pain. but wether you’d like to admit it or not, theres a reason you woke up this morning. youre not hopeless, youre not unloved. part of you has hope, part of you loves yourself deep deep down. its choosing the path if comfort rn but if you feed that part of you instead of the one who wants to be sick, you’d be surprised how good youre capable of feeling

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Anonymous OP 4w

The reason I woke up this morning is because my health problems haven’t progressed enough to end my suffering. If you knew my situation, you would understand that I *am* very much indeed as hopeless and unloved as I say I am. I’ve been in therapy since 2012 & made almost every therapist I’ve ever had cry with my story. I’ve been on so many medications that I’ve exhausted the categories SSRIs, SNRIs, Tricyclics, Atypicals, *and* Serotonin Modulators. I am a lost cause in every imaginable way.

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Anonymous #7 4w

I’m a trans man who doesn’t pass as well. I found a trans woman who somehow sees me as a guy. Finding love isn’t the be all end all of happiness, but there’s definitely still someone out there for you <33

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Anonymous #2 4w

you’ve been dealt a rough hand but that doesn’t mean you’re a lost cause

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Anonymous #2 4w

i hear you. i get it. but there is nothing you could say or do that could ever convince me that you’re worthless.

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Anonymous #2 4w

i hear a lot of suffering. i hear a lot of frustration at something you didn’t choose to endure. i hear someone who’s been in the hands of a lot of unfairness and someone who’s somehow survived through things no human was meant to endure, especially not alone. you didn’t ask to feel like this. i know you can’t just snap your fingers and change some thoughts and make it better. but just look at how much beauty one response from you sparked in a whole group of people, dear.

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Anonymous #2 4w

you have got to be incredibly fucking strong. i don’t mean that lightly. so if you can’t find the strength to think a good thought today, then at least know that i am proud of you. because getting this far, from what you just communicated, is a feat on its own.

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Anonymous #1 4w

Thank you 🗣️ hoping it finds me soon cause I am tired of living a life of unrequited yearning

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Anonymous #7 4w

manifesting you romcom levels of mutual pining and the most sickly sweet relationship <3

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