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My bf says he is “irritated” with me cuz I have low sex drive due to my antidepressants. What a weird thing to say to someone lol
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Anonymous 16h

ummm girl boy they whoever you are dump him if he’s gonna try and do that to you i’ve been on antidepressants before and i can also say yes they tanked my libido but if he’s gonna hold it over your head, you shouldn’t have to feel ashamed because of it wishing you well

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Anonymous 14h

sounds like a man who does not care about your needs & only values you based on what you offer to him

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Anonymous 11h

Hey sometimes sex is the hill some ppl die on. Maybe u guys aren’t compatible if it means a lot more to him than it does for u. Great thing to find out sooner rather than later

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Anonymous 9h

irritated? fuck that break up with him. feeling like y’all are sexually incompatible? sure whatever. but IRRITATED at you over a medical side effect? clearly he feels like he’s owed smth just for being with you, & there’s no use staying with a man like that

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Anonymous 8h

your lols at the end of your statements is killing me i see that ssri is working diva

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Anonymous 8h

my ex used to say the same thing 🥲

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Anonymous 2h

Ew rapey

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

He’s threatened to break up with me if I don’t “fix” the issue lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

dude what the actual fuck i’m so sorry :(. he is not worth your time and never wil be

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

If he’s so insistent on somebody getting fixed, bring him down to the vet

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

There’s a difference between admitting that it’s hard for him politely while saying that he still cares about you and figuring out another way to make it work (like getting toys) than the way he’s telling you that. It sounds like he values sex more than other parts of a relationship. If I were him I’d just masturbate and be ok with only occasional sex.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12h

If it still bothered me I’d figure out another way to make it work, like getting a sex doll.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

Please leave him im exhausted for you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9h

he is fully admitting to you that he’d rather you be depressed than not be able to use you for sex. the only issue that needs to be fixed is HIM bro, drop him at the nearest vet ASAP and get those balls removed before he gets the chance to ruin your life entirely. this is SUCH disgusting behavior and i really hope you are seeing these warning sirens and proceeding accordingly!

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 9h

You’re right. This honestly reminds me of my ex who would emotionally manipulate me.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 9h

He should just get some sex toys

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 9h

Couldn’t be articulated better. Better than how I phrased it.

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