
There’s a difference between admitting that it’s hard for him politely while saying that he still cares about you and figuring out another way to make it work (like getting toys) than the way he’s telling you that. It sounds like he values sex more than other parts of a relationship. If I were him I’d just masturbate and be ok with only occasional sex.
he is fully admitting to you that he’d rather you be depressed than not be able to use you for sex. the only issue that needs to be fixed is HIM bro, drop him at the nearest vet ASAP and get those balls removed before he gets the chance to ruin your life entirely. this is SUCH disgusting behavior and i really hope you are seeing these warning sirens and proceeding accordingly!