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does anyone feel really guilty when they get sick bc their parents used to (and still) think you are just being dramatic so you try to convince yourself you are fine when you are throwing up and just broke from a two day fever
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Anonymous 1d

i feel bad for people who grew up with parents like this, very neglectful. my parents were quick to make me drs appointments when i showed signs of illness & tended to me at home as well.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

You have no idea how validating your comment is. Seriously I appreciate you. It’s hard not to feel like what OP described is the norm.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

update: i ended up having strep throat and im happy i didnt end up going to work as i work with kids. however that didn’t stop my father for shaming me for not going to work (before he knew it was strep)

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

no problem! idk who you are but i hope you’re able to unlearn your parents bs. you live with your body, you know better than them how you feel physically & mentally when you’re okay vs when you’re sick.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

fuck your dad. i hope you feel better soon

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