
To me it’s more of like I’m wary. Like how women are wary of men. If I meet you and you’re one of these things I won’t be closed off to a friendship, as long as you seem like a good individual, but I may not trust you right away. Or I just mentally prepare myself to get. This wariness is also a coping mechanism to protect myself. Also the Greek life at my school specifically (UMass Amherst, specifically ΚΚΓ, ΙΓΥ, ΑΧΡ, and ΘΧ the rape frat) are known for being very toxic.