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Neurodivergent 3w
I think I’m tweaking but she still hasn’t said a word to me and I’m scared to make conversation cause I fear she’ll hate me even more. Idk what to do but I’m genuinely fearing the worst about our friendship but ik she’s also rlly busy 😭
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Neurodivergent 3w
Feeling like a massive inconvenience to be around i was too loud when coming back into the room and roommate bolted out the apartment. And we’ve barely talked since Friday :(
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Anonymous 3w

please talk to your roommate :( i understand feeling the worst about things but communicate to her about what ur feeling, she won’t hate you and it’s probably just cause she’s busy :,(

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Anonymous 3w

Like my existence is tolerated enough that she still eats, sleeps, and gets ready in our shared room while I’m here but she hasn’t acknowledged me once when I’m active and about. But again the rational part of me says she’s just rlly rlly busy cause by the time I show up she has to go somewhere. Wish I could talk this out with my counselor but I have to wait til Friday😭

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Anonymous 3w

Honestly, you might just have to accept that the baseline for a roommate is being tolerable of each other, friends are like a benefit lmao- also some ppl don’t clock, doesn’t mean u did anything wrong ^^ just focus on other stuff yall can bond later

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I might try to bring it up this weekend if this continues since I think those are her off days. I just rlly don’t wanna be a bother with my feelings cause she’s already juggling enough with school, work, fiancé, and shitty parents 🥲

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

that’s understandable but you might be juggling a lot too, i don’t think she’ll see it as a bother and it’s good to let her know how you feel! i hope it goes well if you do soon!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Been going through waves of freaking out about it and I’m in the phase where I’m oddly content to just know she’s in the room and we’re vibing doing our own thing. Reflecting on it I haven’t looked the most approachable so maybe I’ll try not to clock out as early as

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