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One of my roommates also is autistic and he has autistic family members and doesn’t exactly treat them very nicely. He yelled at me today the same way he yells at his sister and it felt triggering honestly.
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Anonymous 9w

it fascinates me to see how autism presents differently in people socialized as male vs socialized as female; i was taught to shove my anger and such as deep down inside me as possible and even being slightly angry at someone is enough to ruin my mood and make me withdraw into myself, while i’ve personally seen autistic men generally have much more access to their anger.

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Anonymous 9w

Ugh i literally go theogub this too its horrible

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

(not to assume or insinuate you’re one or the other but to more be like I Notice This Thing In General, there’s also a shitload of nuance that comes when you consider the high amount of autistic people who are gendernonconforming in some way)

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

It’s not a fun time

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

It’s not as “fascinating” when you’re the one being verbally abused lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

Next time I’m going to yell back. No one deserves to be verbally abused.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

very understandable, i should have specified fascinating in a frustrating way. sorry to get analytical 😓 i know it feels fucking awful to be berated and i’m sorry you’re going through that.

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