Neurodivergent on Yik Yak | I feel so shitty rn cos I think I led a girl on but I didn’t mean to. I think I was really hyperfixated on her but now the hyperfixation is gone and texting her feels so draining now which sucks cos I really liked her and don’t want her to be sad ☹️

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Neurodivergent 9w

I feel so shitty rn cos I think I led a girl on but I didn’t mean to. I think I was really hyperfixated on her but now the hyperfixation is gone and texting her feels so draining now which sucks cos I really liked her and don’t want her to be sad ☹️

Anonymous 9w

Like I haven’t been texting as consistently and I feel really bad and she’s so sweet and idk what to do

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OP 9w

I say ride it out and move on. That’s the least painful route for both of you

Anonymous 9w

Thank you! So so much. I’ve been saying subtly that I’m not mentally in a place to keep talking, but I don’t think she’s picked up on it (tbh she’s probably neurodivergent too). I’ll probably have to come clean and just tell her. 😔

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OP 9w

I don’t want to. I want it to work. But even looking into the future, I’m not sure if it could. This hurts so much. And I’m so sad cos I know this is hurting her too. I know I didn’t do it intentionally but I feel like such a shitty person for this.