break up with him and press charges if you want to

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limited or lack of consent, intimidation, coercion, and emotional manipulation are all examples of ways SA can happen in relationships. even if it was agreeing to only fellacio & nothing further, then being forced to continue further is assault. personally experienced this way too many times before i realized what it was!!

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I dealt with this with a previous abusive partner. I didn’t know what happened until after he did it (I was unconscious). It was years ago but I still think about it a lot and the feeling of powerlessness has stuck with me. I can’t really give you advice without knowing what his motivation was/what he did/if you are safe to talk about it with him, but If you want someone to talk to in more detail, feel free to dm me💜

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