Anonymous #1 3w

Oh I didn’t know they had that

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Anonymous OP 3w

I know it exists but I’m not on there because I’m not a girl

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Anonymous OP 3w

Hope you found it! Sending you lots of love!

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Anonymous #1 3w

Omg yeah thank you!

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Anonymous #1 3w

Yeah I feel the same I know for sure I’m a woman I just feel like I’m performing what a woman is supposed to be like especially around new people :(

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Anonymous #1 3w

I can’t work in a female dominated field without being treated differently by the women around me. I can’t be too friendly, affectionate, or care about others without people doubting my genuineness. Oh and the next thing I’m going to mention is an autism thing in general, but people saying “he’s a bit odd” for no fucking reason.

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Anonymous OP 3w

Oh sorry I didn’t see your comment

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Anonymous OP 3w

I feel seen! Thank you!

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Anonymous #1 3w

It’s ok I feel you I tend to get more closed up and anxious around men because I feel like they’ll notice I’m acting like a woman correctly so I get being seen as odd!

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Anonymous #2 3w

I might do the same. Now when asked for pronouns I say he/they. This is probably why a lot of autistic people are nonbinary or trans. It’s because we can’t conform to normal societal expectations.

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Anonymous #1 3w

agender here, and yeah this is def the case for a lot of people. but, additionally, many autistic people can conform to societal expectations yet simply don’t want to, and are more willing to break out of the mold because of that

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Anonymous #1 3w

apagender type shit yk?

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Anonymous #5 3w

Thank you! And I agree 💞!

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Anonymous #1 3w

EVERYONE SAYS THAT TO ME TOO OML

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Anonymous #8 3w

socially constructed. not that the identities of woman and man aren’t real, but they are constantly changing in language and behavior, so while most men and women keep up with that shift, i feel like autistics get left behind on the social scripts of what it means to be in a group

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Anonymous #5 3w

Wait, I just wanna say yeah, I agree 100,000%. I don’t fit in with girls at all and I feel like I fit in with men in a way because of how blunt they are, like there’s no guessing games about the way that they feel about a situation. that is also kind of disheartening to me because I don’t find myself really sexually attracted to them because of the way that I’ve kind of started to lose that respect.

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Anonymous #7 3w

You’re definitely not the only neurodivergent woman who feels this way. I’ve heard this from many other people, from people I actually know to random autistic content creators. I’m a guy and I wish I had more guy friends. At the moment most of my friends are women, and it causes me more social anxiety because I find them harder to read (unless they’re also neurodivergent). I had a group of guy friends freshman and sophomore year of college but they were really toxic.

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Anonymous #1 3w

Yeah, I literally get degraded and bullied for not being sexually appealing to them if they call me like mainly because I’m a bodybuilder lol

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Anonymous #1 3w

And my dad, honestly kind of raised me to think like man social things He told me to suck it up, move on move from the past, but it’s hard because emotionally I do struggle sometimes. I am still a female with female hormone levels. etc

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Anonymous #7 3w

I love it so much

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Anonymous #7 3w

So fucking mean….and tbh beauty standards make no sense. Muscular women are way more attractive than those models in magazines. That being said whether or not you are sexually appealing to someone shouldn’t be shared by them! What assholes. I’ve been around a lot of toxic people in college and it’s just awful. I can’t wait to graduate next year.

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Anonymous #7 3w

Yeah and because I’m odd they don’t want to be friends. How am I odd simply for existing? I think it’s just toxic neurotypical standards. And if anyone wants to talk, you or anyone else, my DMs are open! Sending everyone lots of love!

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Anonymous #7 2w

I feel seen 💞💞

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