and irl. it’s a SLUR. i don’t care if you’re neurodivergent, i don’t care if you’re desensitized to it, it is a slur rooted in the systematic murder/torture/lobotomization of disabled people. the r word was also targeted much more toward intellectually disabled people who didn’t have the ability to speak up for themselves, so i really don’t want to hear it from any nd person who uses it trying to say they’re “reclaiming it.” especially because they’re not, they’re still using it as an insult
I'm sorry but it's strange for everyone here to be rallying for intellectually disabled people, and then you're here, implying someone is stupid for not knowing a word that's been heavily censored and simply asking if this was the word. Yes they may have said it uncensored, but you're picking on someone for making a social faux pas in an ND community. You could have gone about that in a much kinder way.