Honestly sometimes you just have to push through it. It helps to have a reason to though, I used to have a BAD aversion to teeth brushing, like as a kid I wouldn't do it for months. But then I got braces and had to brush my teeth if I didn't want problems. Now I can't go WITHOUT brushing my teeth because the plaque buildup is a sensory nightmare.
Make it a habit! I know it's easier said than done, but if you make yourself do a nightly routine you'll find you can't go to sleep without checking everything off the list. For me it's -Taking meds -Brushing teeth and putting in retainer -Physical therapy exercises for my carpal tunnel -Washing my face and putting on acne cream It might seem like a lot, but it gets easier over time. My list used to be longer (had to clean my piercings before they healed) and now it feels easy.
I get it, but habits just don’t form with me. My medicine that I need to stay alive is right next to my bed and I still don’t take it every night without another person to remind me (bc let’s be real, phone alarms can just be turned off and ignored). Max I ever get it a week, and that’s typically bc I’m on vacation and have a new environment to stimulate the dopamine of pretending to have a normal life :/ routines and habits are meaningless once they don’t give brain the happy juice
I get where you're coming from, but I'm genuinely trying to be helpful. I know it's not easy, took me years to do and sometimes I still struggle with upkeep. But maintaining a routine really helps me as an AuDHD person because I get really depressed without one (like when I'm on school break). So my nightly routine helps me personally. I often forget that not everyone works the same as I do (I mean I KNOW they don't, but I don't always REALIZE in the moment).