Honestly I don’t know how to approach this at all, I’ve grown out of a lot of insensitive beliefs, but I’m so ashamed of how I used to act, and i wouldn’t accept changed behavior from someone that grew up ableist or racist, so why do others accept me 🥺
sometimes i think about the rly insensitive things i said/did when i was younger & didn’t have a grasp on relationships and social cues. i was such a bad partner and i wish i could go back and tell my teenage self to not be so shitty