Anonymous OP 14w

which is valid to me- as i have fallen into that sort of can’t reply mode as well and he seemed visibly tired. so i’ve been hanging out with A and he’s definitely caught feelings and i like him too but i don’t think he sees me as masc as i want (im ftm). We met on grindr so i thought he was gay but he keeps calling me pretty and beautiful and im like :3 maybe a handsome tooo?

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Anonymous OP 14w

initially guy A said he wasn’t in the right place for a relationship (but not to flex i’m just so cool i think he changed his mind) But i don’t want to give up doing things with B since I was just getting into a fun groove of new things and experiences

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Anonymous OP 14w

but guy B also seems to show little to no interest in my life or what i’m doing like guy A does

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Anonymous OP 14w

anyway i just feel so icky having two people messaging me and even though im not technically dating anyone it feels so euughhh i feel bad and don’t know what to doooo

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Anonymous OP 14w

you could mention to guy A that you prefer to be called handsome rather than pretty or beautiful perhaps? (if you already have then rip i’m sorry) it depends on what you want out of this relationship i think — if you’re fine with the focus being on sex and not having a partner who’s involved in other aspects of your life, guy B would be fine. if you do want a partner who appears to care about aspects other than sex, though, that would lead you to guy A because guy B does not provide that. (1/2)

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Anonymous #1 14w

(2/2) i will also admit that i have not dated before so i don’t have any experience, this is just how i view it from outside. best of luck!

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Anonymous #1 14w

thank you!! yeah i appreciate the input!! i’m not sure how to let the other down though :(

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Anonymous OP 14w

oh yeah i’m not sure about that, good luck!

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