Anonymous #1 34w

Thing is he never acted like they towards my face, but I guess the algorithm showed me what I needed to truly see.

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Anonymous #6 34w

You don’t speak for all of us You don’t speak for those of us who had to endure abuse So don’t try to represent all of us.

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Anonymous OP 34w

This would make more sense if abuse of those with ADHD was a known to be a disproportionately systemic issue - but it’s not. Also, I’ve been hit as a child. So I suppose that makes me able to ‘speak for’ as many people as you think that makes you qualified to speak for??

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Anonymous #6 34w

All you’re doing is justifying ableism and now you’re trying to use neurotypical wording. Stop trying to rage bait no one gives a fuck what you think is and isn’t funny dude.

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Anonymous OP 34w

What neurotypical wording??? 😭 This entire post is about what YOU don’t think is funny?? I’m not trying to rage bait or justify ableism, but with the context you’ve given this friend may very well have been someone with ADHD making a self deprecating ‘edgy’ joke. Your reaction to the point of blocking and posting this woe-be-me is premature and overblown and you’re getting yes-man’d. You’re tripping hard.

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Anonymous #6 34w

Idfk what was neurotypical abt your wording, but you should try to understand that this stuff is funny the same way that suicide jokes are funny BUT that this has widely accepted public background. Jokes about being beaten bcos of their disability should only rlly be made by people who have the disability. The implication of the post is that parents should beat their kids more and only snowflake children who “weren’t raised right” have adhd.

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Anonymous #7 34w

A lot of people genuinely believe that 1) children should receive corporal punishment for bad behavior, 2) adhd is ‘bad behavior’, and 3) that beating an adhd child would “fix” them. The post supports all three of those notions

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Anonymous #7 34w

However ☝️a subversive one that I, as a child in a first-name basis with cps and as someone with adhd, would find hilarious: “[some set up abt how conservatives believe the points above] and I just keep wishing that my dad would’ve beat me just a liiiiittle bit more because life would be so much easier if he’d managed to rid me of my disability”

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Nice self projection, bet I’m more successful in life than you are.

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Found the neurotypical, I highly doubt you attend MIT, but I also attend a top 10 university and I paid off my 2020 RS3 in a year and a half. Wanna still flex your fancy ass piece of paper or are you gonna shut your cock hole now?

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Anonymous #7 34w

If it were were autism instead of ADHD references, I’d be agreeing in a heart beat but as it stands it’s a massive reach. But that’s also my point, we have no context here that the post made wasn’t a joke told in the same vein and just mistold/misunderstood. Without knowing more/following up, blocking a ‘friend of 12 years’ is crazy.

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Bros so worked up he’s writing paragraphs now. Go touch grass if they have any on MITs campus.

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Anyway here’s my RS3, glad you came to terms with yourself that you’re annoying number 5. Sorry you’re this miserable in life and don’t believe someone with adhd can’t get a car they want.

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Tl;dr cry some more.

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Anonymous OP 34w

Bruh this is literally the neurodivergent sub. No one is here trying to take away our bitching privileges. We have literally no incentive to do so and all you’re doing is trying to accuse people of being a neurotypical as an insult. #5 and I are going to get downvoted to hell regardless and that’s just the nature of this sub but you seriously just need to get a grip.

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Anonymous #6 34w

Tl;dr cry some more 🥱

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It’s almost as if I bought that exact car

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Tl;dr, cry some more 🥱

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>tells others to grow up >goes to these lengths to try and win an internet argument >forever a turbo virgin

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Tl;dr all you’re confirming is you need serious psychiatric help. Doesn’t matter because I still drive an Audi, that I paid for with my money.

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Go on reserve search that one I dare ya

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Anonymous OP 34w

OP literally no one is going to actually get more worked up and upset over this than you are - the whole reason we’re here is cause you can’t get a grip. Also that car was listed for sale 9 days ago, and if it were your car you would be doxxing yourself cause VINs are a thing

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Anonymous #6 34w

The way you and 7 are acting says other wise 🥱

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More self projection from the weak little man that shit talks behind a screen. Wanna come down to Florida and say it to my face? Oh that’s right you won’t because you nerds at MIT are only tough behind anonymity

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That’s where you’re dead wrong bucko, look up the number 3 entomology department in the word and try again. Sorry you got a bug in your ass

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Seeing fact I have a degree in technology and soon to be a degree in entomology, on top of working 40 hours a week, and having a vehicle that’s paid for, I’d say I am.

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Why would I pay out of state tuition when I get in state tuition in Florida? Who’s really the one with autism now?

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Anonymous OP 34w

You’re out here flexing a 40k car in response to getting called out for being childish and overplaying the ADHD victim card in an inappropriate manner - by people with ADHD who think it’s borderline disrespectful. If we go at lengths it’s only because you’re a spectacle of a human being.

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Anonymous #6 34w

Look at how you and 5 are acting

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More self projecting I see?

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You and 6 are making nothing but ad hominem remarks, it speaks loads on your emotional maturity levels.

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Cute ad hominem remarks, I’ve never told you my age and now you’re just assuming and grasping at straws. 😂 Go get laid turbo virgins 😭🤣🤡

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Anonymous OP 34w

Here let me give tweaking a shot - we need SERIOUS PSYCHIATRIC HELP?? Gasp. HOW DARE YOU. ABLEISM. ABLEISM I SAY! IM OFFENDED. How dare you use that as an insult you FILTHY NEUROTYPICAL.

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Anonymous #6 34w

Given how you two are acting? Yeah seek help man.

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Yet a 24 year old can, just more ad hominems and assumptions on your part.

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If you want to get technical I got my AA at 17 because of dual enrollment. 🥱

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It’s almost like there’s more to the app than just “freshmen’s girls” you keep resorting to that ad hominem. Are you sure you’re not self projecting at this point?

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More and more ad hominems, you’re so pressed to win an argument on yak. Keep self projecting I can’t take you serious anymore.

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Look at the group name big brain

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Alright man, now you’re starting to tweak too 💀 I’m just going to stand by what I said originally and leave it at that

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Can we not use autistic as an insult? If you’re going to be ableist leave the community

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Anonymous OP 34w

My brother and I just had some great laughs together reading through your tweaking. Ty for the entertainment <3

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Just because it’s not disabling to you doesn’t mean it isn’t to others. ADHD is in fact classified as a disability under the Americans with Disabilities Act and you can receive disability benefits with a diagnosis

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Anonymous #3 34w

Quite literally got a service animal for mine

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What about her? She’s clearly happier than you. Toodles dick for brains

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I actually study invasive species in Florida, I also am able to talk to 24 year old women on campus so weak insults from a weak individual.

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Anonymous #3 34w

Yeah 💀 I’m all for dogging on this guy for overplaying the ADHD card but using autism as an insult is a bit antithetical to it all (including OP’s “Who’s really the autistic one now”)

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Don’t let the door hit you on the ass, this group won’t miss you. ❤️

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Anonymous #3 34w

ADHD is disabling for me too but the way OP is acting about it given their SPECIFIC context is INSANE and just disrespectful imo. And OPs been blind to the ableism they’ve been slanging around oh so willing to hang others for any perceived ableism. Which is insane, a massive personality defect, and reflects poorly on the entire community.

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Anonymous #6 34w

I didn’t read the entire thread and no offense to anyone, I don’t really want to. Just saw what #5 said in my notifications. Whoever said what idc just can we not use autism as an insult

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Anonymous #3 34w

Very strongly with you there

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Anonymous #6 34w

No literally that shit is funny af😭😭

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Anonymous OP 34w

“who’s really the one with autism now?” …hey OP, wanna explain what you meant by that? 😀

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Anonymous #9 34w

Some of fives stuff must have been either deleted or down voted to oblivion I was merely mirroring them since they kept calling me autistic

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Anonymous OP 34w

How is that an excuse, you said you have ADHD not autism. Your entire post is about how ableists always reveal themselves, i responded as someone with bad adhd and said you were way overplaying it but that I would have agreed if it were about autism - and then you defaulted to using autism as an insult…

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Anonymous #6 34w

How is 5’s behavior an excuse as well? How is your behavior an excuse? I think you should be going after 5 more than you should be me. You and 5 have been trying to tell me my diagnosis isn’t debilitating, you don’t know my symptoms, nor do you speak for those of us who struggle with executive dysfunction on a day to day basis. Now are you gonna stop or continue crying because I said it once, while 5 kept on and on or can I enjoy my Saturday and move on from yesterday?

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Anonymous OP 34w

I have NEVER said your ADHD diagnosis isn’t debilitating, i know just how debilitating it can be but you’ve shown reading comprehension issues from the start. If that weren’t the case you would’ve realized that I did call out 5 for using it, repeatedly. People discriminate against us but you’re acting like they’re as ableist towards us as they are towards things like autism. Nowhere near the same for you to be off the bat reacting the way you are, to then use autism as an insult.

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Anonymous #6 34w

You haven’t lived my life so you don’t speak for me, I experience just as much ableism and unconscious bias as you do bro. At my university and at work, it’s a constant uphill battle for my accommodations to be respected. A lot of autism traits overlap as well with inattentive adhd. It’s not always about hyperactivity and being distracted easily, just like autism isn’t always nonfunctional individuals who are non verbal.

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Anonymous OP 34w

autism has a lot more social factors than ADHD. Interacting with people everyday is a literal struggle.

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Anonymous #9 34w

It’s not a competition number nine

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Anonymous OP 34w

9 is right. Kids get beat up and shunned by other kids for being autistic, no one is beating us up BECAUSE of ADHD. It’s not the same thing as having ADHD accommodations ignored which I’ve got first hand experience with. You experience ‘just as much ableism and bias’ as I do, and bidirectionally, I to you 😭 This sub is being nice to you, if you conflate the stigma and social stigma of autism and adhd in real life you WILL come off as a massive tool specifically to others with ADHD

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Anonymous #6 34w

you worded this much better than I could #6, thank you!

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Anonymous #9 34w

I appreciate it I was starting to feel crazy out here. I don’t know how to explain it but as a minority in a few ways sometimes you see others in your group see another prototypical disenfranchised group get, for good reason, upset about something for specific reasons and react in a certain way. Then members of ‘my’ group will copy paste use it as a template on when, where, and how to respond or get upset without adapting it/taking into consideration our issues, relationship w the zeitgeist…

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Anonymous #6 34w

…even when it doesn’t apply to us specifically & we don’t have the same history/specific context of disenfranchisement that applied to the prototypical group. Which is not to say we aren’t disenfranchised or don’t have it hard, but just like we shouldn’t play the oppression Olympics we should be able to admit when others have it harder than us in certain ways & not lazily make a mockery of their plight when we have our own to deal with. It’s just not right even if ppl are too nice to call it out

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