What neurotypical wording??? 😭 This entire post is about what YOU don’t think is funny?? I’m not trying to rage bait or justify ableism, but with the context you’ve given this friend may very well have been someone with ADHD making a self deprecating ‘edgy’ joke. Your reaction to the point of blocking and posting this woe-be-me is premature and overblown and you’re getting yes-man’d. You’re tripping hard.
Idfk what was neurotypical abt your wording, but you should try to understand that this stuff is funny the same way that suicide jokes are funny BUT that this has widely accepted public background. Jokes about being beaten bcos of their disability should only rlly be made by people who have the disability. The implication of the post is that parents should beat their kids more and only snowflake children who “weren’t raised right” have adhd.
However ☝️a subversive one that I, as a child in a first-name basis with cps and as someone with adhd, would find hilarious: “[some set up abt how conservatives believe the points above] and I just keep wishing that my dad would’ve beat me just a liiiiittle bit more because life would be so much easier if he’d managed to rid me of my disability”
If it were were autism instead of ADHD references, I’d be agreeing in a heart beat but as it stands it’s a massive reach. But that’s also my point, we have no context here that the post made wasn’t a joke told in the same vein and just mistold/misunderstood. Without knowing more/following up, blocking a ‘friend of 12 years’ is crazy.
you are absolutely annoying as fuck and clearly despised by your peers it’s why you’re so desperate to prove your worth on yikyak in a community of fellow autists, i haven’t been on here since I got the app and I can understand why immediately from 1 conversation with someone on here. the hard evidence speaks for itself and it’s kinda cute u think ur not the one projecting
i will do that! hope you can learn to do the same - which btw - you’ll only learn to make people like you the second you stop catastrophizing your slow child brain to victimize yourself - stop yapping in your classes like you do on here - and trying to prove your self worth in an argument as if it’s the first grade. hopefully one day you get the friends you seek that’ll get you off of yikyak.
Bruh this is literally the neurodivergent sub. No one is here trying to take away our bitching privileges. We have literally no incentive to do so and all you’re doing is trying to accuse people of being a neurotypical as an insult. #5 and I are going to get downvoted to hell regardless and that’s just the nature of this sub but you seriously just need to get a grip.
literally so many of the world’s most successful people are neurodivergent but you whine about it and catastrophize it to make it seem as though you’re disabled which is genuinely disgusting - no one has ever said “someone with ADHD can’t get an audi” (which you don’t even have one and had to use a fake image bc ur mentally 9 and think people can’t reverse search LOOOOL) please grow the fuck up
you took a screenshot of a car that isn’t yours and had to lie to prove your self worth - you started an argument and me disproving it is me simply matching half of the lengths you went to. my bf satisfies me every night and you’re stuck lying about your entire life on yikyak trying to convince yourself your ADHD makes you disabled, we are not the same😚
You’re out here flexing a 40k car in response to getting called out for being childish and overplaying the ADHD victim card in an inappropriate manner - by people with ADHD who think it’s borderline disrespectful. If we go at lengths it’s only because you’re a spectacle of a human being.
My guy no 18 year old has two degrees (which is total bullshit) working full time. YOUR WORDS reveal your age which is like basic shit you’d learn in 1 intro sociology class. You are a liar, a total weirdo, and probably a pedo. U know this app is full of college freshmen and mainly women. EWW
ADHD is disabling for me too but the way OP is acting about it given their SPECIFIC context is INSANE and just disrespectful imo. And OPs been blind to the ableism they’ve been slanging around oh so willing to hang others for any perceived ableism. Which is insane, a massive personality defect, and reflects poorly on the entire community.
How is that an excuse, you said you have ADHD not autism. Your entire post is about how ableists always reveal themselves, i responded as someone with bad adhd and said you were way overplaying it but that I would have agreed if it were about autism - and then you defaulted to using autism as an insult…
How is 5’s behavior an excuse as well? How is your behavior an excuse? I think you should be going after 5 more than you should be me. You and 5 have been trying to tell me my diagnosis isn’t debilitating, you don’t know my symptoms, nor do you speak for those of us who struggle with executive dysfunction on a day to day basis. Now are you gonna stop or continue crying because I said it once, while 5 kept on and on or can I enjoy my Saturday and move on from yesterday?
I have NEVER said your ADHD diagnosis isn’t debilitating, i know just how debilitating it can be but you’ve shown reading comprehension issues from the start. If that weren’t the case you would’ve realized that I did call out 5 for using it, repeatedly. People discriminate against us but you’re acting like they’re as ableist towards us as they are towards things like autism. Nowhere near the same for you to be off the bat reacting the way you are, to then use autism as an insult.
You haven’t lived my life so you don’t speak for me, I experience just as much ableism and unconscious bias as you do bro. At my university and at work, it’s a constant uphill battle for my accommodations to be respected. A lot of autism traits overlap as well with inattentive adhd. It’s not always about hyperactivity and being distracted easily, just like autism isn’t always nonfunctional individuals who are non verbal.
9 is right. Kids get beat up and shunned by other kids for being autistic, no one is beating us up BECAUSE of ADHD. It’s not the same thing as having ADHD accommodations ignored which I’ve got first hand experience with. You experience ‘just as much ableism and bias’ as I do, and bidirectionally, I to you 😭 This sub is being nice to you, if you conflate the stigma and social stigma of autism and adhd in real life you WILL come off as a massive tool specifically to others with ADHD
I appreciate it I was starting to feel crazy out here. I don’t know how to explain it but as a minority in a few ways sometimes you see others in your group see another prototypical disenfranchised group get, for good reason, upset about something for specific reasons and react in a certain way. Then members of ‘my’ group will copy paste use it as a template on when, where, and how to respond or get upset without adapting it/taking into consideration our issues, relationship w the zeitgeist…
…even when it doesn’t apply to us specifically & we don’t have the same history/specific context of disenfranchisement that applied to the prototypical group. Which is not to say we aren’t disenfranchised or don’t have it hard, but just like we shouldn’t play the oppression Olympics we should be able to admit when others have it harder than us in certain ways & not lazily make a mockery of their plight when we have our own to deal with. It’s just not right even if ppl are too nice to call it out