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Neurodivergent 17w
581 upvotes, 35 comments. Yik Yak image post by Anonymous in Neurodivergent.
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Anonymous 17w

This! I hate being infantilized. My boyfriend and I are not children. Because yes we kiss and yes we have sex. Autism doesn’t stop that

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Anonymous 17w

The graphic sex stories some of my autistic friends have told me are not for the faint of heart. We’re talking Rice Purity Scores of under 25 here.

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Anonymous 17w

Petsmart custom tag machine knows me by name. I have never owned a dog

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Anonymous 17w

I’m convinced there is a relationship between autism and bdsm. I love bdsm (specifically as a sub). I love being told what to do and having explicit directions. I love bondage. I love light pain. I love being desired.

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Anonymous 17w

You guys are getting laid? 🥲

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Anonymous 17w

my gf and I are both autistic and this is so true

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Anonymous 17w

i’m recently realizing i’m so kinky and i’m exploring it

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Anonymous 17w

Ik this isn't directly related to the post but since yall are all here, how do you guys handle BDSM when it's not fun?? My partner and I have a safe word, but there's times we can't use it like during bjs or when one of us goes nonverbal. What do you do in that case? I was thinking a safe motion could be useful but I'm not sure what to do for it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 17w

👁️👄👁️

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 17w

Woof woof :3

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 17w

Damn

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 17w

Oh and I live giving bjs

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 17w

I think we like BDSM so much bc of the sensory experience. Normal sex is icky and bad sensory but tie me up, apply pressure. Oh boy

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 17w

Do u fw terminally online bears

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 17w

Oh god I have adhd but is this how I learn I should have maybe talked with my therapist more

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 17w

Talking to your therapist about kink is hell I truly cannot recommend it. But yeah maybe good to bring up

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 17w

Idk I think he’d be down once we get past my family trauma and my trauma from my abusive ex

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 17w

HAHAHAHAHAHA REALLLLL

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17w

wtf graphic sex?😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 17w

It’s when you make two objects merge in Adobe Illustrator

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 17w

(Graphic in this case means just means ‘detailed and explicit.’ It is not a type of sex that one can have— at least, as far as I’m aware)

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 17w

There actually IS a relationship btwn neurodivergence and bdsm!! I’m a psychology student and we covered this in class :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 17w

Absolutely wild😳

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 17w
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Anonymous replying to -> #10 17w

I’ve talked about kink with two different therapists and they were really chill about it + they didn’t have such relevant expertise. Go for it. Oh & we talked about how it might be related to trauma coping. Fun stuff

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 17w

So real,, I think this is why I like being choked

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 17w

You the goat for this specifically

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 17w

how do u get into this stuff? i feel very repressed and awkward and don’t know how to start with my partner

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 17w

Ik ur asking #8 but what I did is just asked my partner. we both have a pretty blunt/direct communication style tho. but yea literally I just asked her “hey are you into [blank]?”

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 17w

my gf and I have a non verbal safe word as well as a verbal one. Ours is just tapping the other person (or bed if one of us is tied up) very fast repeatedly, it’s come up a couple times and has been pretty easy to use and interpret.

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 17w

If there’s restraints involved some people involve an object like holding a small ball and then dropping it to safe word. Otherwise waving a hand or tapping a part of their body works

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 17w

My partner and I do the same thing that most performers do on kink dot com (shake head sideways three times while going “uh-uh-uh”)

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 17w

There are some websites that let you take paired quizzes and only show each other the results you have in common. I think mojo bang is a good one

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

Sorry it’s called mojo upgrade

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 16w

Wait that is a great idea actually😏 I never considered that as an option….

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