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*seeking OCD advice hey guys, i have pretty bad OCD that seems to be worsening with having dirty, irresponsible roommates. i signed a lease so im stuck here for a year, and im going insane. my roommates listen to my suggestions but never actually (1/?)
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Anonymous 2d

really fix anything that they’re doing. the kitchen is filthy, despite the fact I have deep cleaned it 2x in the last 30 days AND that we have a rotating weekly cleaning schedule for everyone. the dishes always have to be washed again before I can use them. frankly the only place that doesn’t feel contaminated is my bedroom and it gets stuffy but I feel like there’s nowhere else for me to go. anyone have any advice for what i can do for myself? I can’t change their habits or how they (2/ ?)

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Anonymous 2d

I really wish there was a way for you to seriously intervene with your roommates- this isn’t something that u can just control, and they should do their part as well!

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Anonymous 2d

someone i saw w contamination ocd said exposure therapy helped them a lot

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Anonymous 2d

Are you in therapy rn? This sounds like a really good discussion to have with someone with a lot of training

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Anonymous 16h

You poor thing :( I totally know how awful being exposed against your will is (I also have OCD), and the whole situation sounds terrible. Do you have the app NOCD? There is some really good de-escalation exercises on there, and you have the ability to vent to other people with OCD. It’s really quite nice. They also offer online therapy and take most insurances, although I don’t know your insurance situation. Also, you can totally dm me any time you want if you need advice on recovery :)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

treat our common spaces, but im constantly exhausted and feel itchy and gross in my own home. i hate cooking, which i normally love, because i have to wash dishes twice. i have to do an empty load of laundry, bc the tub always smells moldy, before i can do my laundry. like my ADHD makes these tasks hard enough to get to, but the fact i have to do them twice is killing me. maybe this is just a vent but im losing it. i cant afford to move out and get my own place yet so im truly just stuck here

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

it always feels so fucking dirty though. like I shower twice a day minimum, wash my hands anytime I leave my room, change my clothes after being in the kitchen— like I can’t fucking comfortably live like this 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

i feel like im constantly exposed and it makes things worse 😭 but maybe im doing it wrong because its pretty much against my will

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

yes you have to do it with a professional for it to be effective!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

i wish. can barely afford my rent right now, much less therapy

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