it reads as sweet to me bc we all get frustrated sometimes & have the urge to do things we know we shouldnt but what matters is that we realize it & control ourselves in those moments bc we understand that the other person is struggling & care for them. now idk why she told her that (im not privy to the context of the msg so i cant really comment on it) but just someone being able to control their emotions like that & express themselves in a healthy manner is really refreshing for me to see as