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Neurodivergent 17w
Does anyone have any types for an autistic girly to make sex more sensory friendly?
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Anonymous 17w

Different positions. I hate when they're right above me and sweat drips 😖 or when our tummies rub together too much ☹️ I personally prefer lying on the bed while they stand at the edge of the bed. I can put pillows underneath my butt to adjust the angle they're hitting, and my legs have more room to stretch/move around since there's more distance between us. Also music to help drown out bothersome sound effects. And I like putting a movie on sometimes when I get feel mentally understimulated

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Anonymous 17w

Go very slow and communicate with your partner beforehand about what you're both comfortable with and do not want! Planning and consent helps so much

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Anonymous 17w

I need music or some kind of back ground noise to latch onto to help me stay in the moment. Also we like vaguely schedule sex ahead of time so I can mentally prep to make it good for both of us

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Anonymous 17w

what parts are bothering you most?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17w

initiation of it all- i get very quickly overwhelmed and nauseous

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

go as slow as you want!! there’s no rules. all that matters is what you and your partner want. nothing has to go faster than you want it to. slow is sensual! you can ask your partner to ask you for consent explicitly before doing anything new

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17w

he always jumps it on me out of nowhere and it’s not a great surprise so i should probably just talk to him about it lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

yeah you can tell him you’d like to have a lot of communication about what you’re both wanting to do beforehand so you know what to expect. transitions can be hard for us especially if you don’t have time to plan ahead mentally. more communication is always a good idea

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

Thank you all for these wonderful suggestions! I talked to my bf and he says we will make this as easy a process for me as i’d like :)

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