Fr it makes me so mad when ppl are like “oh I think EVERYONE is a little autistic/ADHD :)” That’s cool Jessica, but are you unable to use public bathrooms because the hand driers are too loud, or refuse to eat a TON of foods because of their texture, or chronically unable to do things you know you need to do, even if you WANT to do them? Right, I didn’t think so. It’s so invalidating as someone who is dx’ed with both of those bc they affect EVERY ASPECT OF MY LIFE, I’m not just “silly goofy”
Yeah, will say, I don’t even know what debilitating means anymore, cuz I feel like as a kid I used to literally run around and make noise cuz the hum of the TV was overwhelming. And now that I’ve spent 20+ years being overwhelmed it’s just like yeah, it sucks; but if you live your whole life listening to nails on a chalkboard eventually it just blends into the background in a “this is upsetting, but I’m keeping a straight face” kinda way 🤷♂️
I know the whole pandemic destroyed my ability to mask, but I had issues before. I honestly feel so bad for younger students who had to do everything online right when they are developing socially. I’m sure many of them have developed similar issues, but that’s not autism. You tend to be born with that