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notmypieceofheaven

i have “i’m always right and you disagreeing with me means you think i’m stupid” autism, so trust and believe i absolutely LOVE! a yikyak argument
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Anonymous 5d

I have the “arguments are a way to learn if I don’t know something, a chess game if I know I’m right, or a method of flirting if the other person’s hot.” Autism 🤣 if I get bored or it’s family and I don’t wanna take the argument far I just shut down and say a lot of “hmm’s” and “ok’s”

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Anonymous 5d

Damn that sucks. I love learning things from other people.

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Anonymous 4d

Oh my god same. I am like this and then if more than one person thinks I’m wrong I just hate myself for a little bit. And to the people saying “Well *I* *love* learning from other people,” so do I… two things can be true at once. I doubt you’d primary method of learning is through internet arguments- at least, I hope it’s not. And thinking you’re right doesn’t mean one won’t change their mind when presented evidence they’re wrong.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

I’d like to have this, stealing this autism from you. Sucking it out of you through a twirly straw

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5d

It can be learned, kind of. You have to detach from the feeling that ‘losing’ an argument means a failure. It doesn’t. If you learned something, there’s no such thing as failure.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

Well it’s not always that a disagreement means the other person thinks you’re stupid. And I mean that outside of stupid yikyak arguments, in the real world. it’s just that I like seeing different perspectives and seeing how you came to that conclusion

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4d

Always being open to change my perspective through conversation

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