I am 90% sure that’s the reason tbh. Cause every time I try to bring up things she could do better she always says “relationships are a two way street” as a backhanded way of blaming me for all the problems. And then proceeds to change absolutely nothing about herself or listen to me when I try to tell her smth she does harms me. She is a completely static person and it’s honestly makes her feel inhuman in a way. And thank you😭 I’m getting out of the house in the fall thankfully.