That’s good, that means you are sincere and learned from the mistake whatever it was. That’s a trait that seems to be valued less and less these days

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I don’t have ADHD, I have autism. But there are still mistakes I’ve made in the past years ago that I still think about from time to time. If you can’t get closure the only way you will find some peace is to forgive yourself.

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yes, unhealthily so

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I would agree with #1 it’s good to go back over your mistakes and rethink how you could’ve done it differently. But there is a difference between that and torturing yourself because of a mistake. I do what you explained but I am getting better about it. I just go over it once in my head as in-depth as possible or even write it down. Once it is out and I know I’ve learned all I can I do my best to remind myself that I’ve already handled it and so I don’t need to worry anymore.

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Yes, constantly thinking ab what words I could’ve used to get my point across better

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Yesssss definitely lol

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at my job, we have a mistake log. anytime you make a mistake, it gets put on the log and you have to initial it so the managers know you understand. then it stays there. i’m not on the log super often, but when i am, it ruins the entire shift and i just want to run out to my car and cry about it. i’m trying to be better about it because i know it’s for the betterment of the employees and it’s good for me to reflect and improve how i do my job, but it’s so hard not to just walk out and give up :(

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This is me right now. I’ve been paralyzed by my decisions for the past week

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👏 ALL 👏 THE 👏 TIME 👏 that and blaming myself for stuff that’s not my fault

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