i agree 10000% and i am in like a gc with my friends from my college and i just like don’t know when to text them especially when we’re all apart for the summer. i like will have ideas of shit to say or something and then get nervous it’s weird or annoying LOL. and they do like group calls and i hardly join because i think it’s weird idk we just play games or something not usually talk??? idk i’m nervous for when we graduate- idk if i’ll be able to keep in touch without seeing them in person :(
I think I might’ve just figured something out, but then there’s still the “what are we gonna talk about?” Like is it weird if I just text u like “what’s up” and when something happens that reminds me of u? This technique has worked the best for me, but still not super. Idk there only like a couple ppl I’ve successfully kept in touch w over text and calls and most of them are my family, and even then I’m still not as good with everyone as I would like to be