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I’m tired of feeling like an outcast. It’s been this way my whole life and it never bothered me but now it’s finally getting to me. It really hurts realizing to many you’re unlovable
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Anonymous 16w

It’s a rough feeling. I don’t know you, obviously, but to speak for my own experience with sometimes similar things, I’ve found that often there’s just a barrier that makes it harder to connect with certain people, and there are others who are easier. Having difficulty connecting with certain people doesn’t necessarily make you unlovable, and I know sometimes when we know we’re made to be an outcast a lot that can make it harder to connect as well Do you have any like minded friends?

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Anonymous 16w

It’s likely your thoughts, ideas, & self is not something that is common between y’all. And that’s okay!!! They know you see through them, and have more depth and they just may not like you for being different in that way. Even if you say nothing, they know ONLY becauseeeeee you say nothing. Find like minded people like #2 said!! There are people who would never do this to you, and would notice before you even did. which, it seems you only now just realized. Those aren’t your friends.

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Anonymous 16w

I mean, while I’m sorry you’re feeling this way, it’s possible your attitude towards life is turning people away from you. If you’re negative all the time, people aren’t gonna want to hang with you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

You don’t actually know if they’re negative all the time though, do you? You’re making a lot of assumptions off of one YikYak post that don’t even make any sense from the post Does “it never bothered me” scream “this person is negative all the time” to you?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 16w

AND it takes extraordinary people (imo) to be able to handle differences IN conversation. Rather than taking it personally, your people should be able to handle you having a difference of opinion. Because, you are you and they love YOU. Not your opinions or what you do.

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