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I struggle to communicate my thoughts in the way I intend, and it led to a friend very aggressively cutting ties with me despite a lack of clarification. This is very frustrating and does not feel right.
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Anonymous 1d

(Context: expressed to my friend who invited me to a club that I was afraid of crowds and loud noises and he took it as me flaking on him)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

He seems to be reading it more emotionally than technically & seeing that you genuinely don’t do overstimulating environments, which is sad because you were being honest. Hopefully you can find people who like quiet environments.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

tbh he’s not worth it if he can’t understand that you have sensory issues. i get if you didnt go anywhere with him, but if you dont like what he’s suggesting, suggest sensory friendly activities. hard to give good advice if i dont know the extent of the situation thi

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