mentallyunstablebutlol on Yik Yak | Why is it so hard as an adult to find friends who actually GET you? Not ones who bring up traumatic shit constantly, or only talk when it’s convenient for them? Kinda giving up. I’m a hermit. Feeling EXTREMELY Defeated. 😞

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mentallyunstablebutlol

Why is it so hard as an adult to find friends who actually GET you? Not ones who bring up traumatic shit constantly, or only talk when it’s convenient for them? Kinda giving up. I’m a hermit. Feeling EXTREMELY Defeated. 😞

#friends#adulting#trauma

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Anonymous 20h

yeah lots of people never ask questions back so after like 5 times of hanging out you both realize that you know everything about them and they don’t even remember your major… literally it’s happened where I know deeply personal shit like how they got PTSD (I didn’t and would never ask), and they don’t remember my name

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Anonymous

#1 20h

Right! It’s mind boggling to me. Or they like match farm or something weird.

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