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notmypieceofheaven

no bro you just gotta find the people who think the gay autistic creep thing is endearing. (the biggest obstacle of that is avoiding getting fetishized though…..)
I think I’m hot enough that if I wasn’t autistic and creepy and gay I could date anyone I wanted. And tbh I only recently started to think of myself as hot and it’s doing wonders for my confidence but like that’s only one piece of the pie..
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Anonymous 1d

WHERE ARE THEY THEN? 💔

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Anonymous 20h

As a straight, creepy, autistic man I find it’s only really endearing when it’s the quirky things. When it comes to struggling to communicate, read a situation, behaving inappropriately in a situation, going on the 1000000th rant about a hyper fixation they don’t care about or find weird, etc. it stops being cute and starts being a major turn-off.

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Anonymous 1d

The best thing you could do is stop labeling yourself derogatory terms voluntarily

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

you have to find the normalest looking nerds or the weirdest looking people ever #noinbetween

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Comic book and geek conventions.

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Anonymous replying to -> notmypieceofheaven 1d

I’m already a pretty weird lookin dude

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 20h

Naw I’ve found info-dumps adorable frequently. My ex was a math nerd. He talked about math enough that I started recognizing the history ant theorems enough to be able to talk and ask about it. Supremely weird for me because I am not really a math person but I liked him 🤷‍♀️ I’m also neurodivergent but I frankly enjoy my creepy reputation.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19h

You’re giving me too much hope here calm down 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 19h

Hahaha hope is good though! Just try and focus on making friends vs shoehorning a relationship. Then when you find one person you want (not because of their looks) about maybe being more than friends. In my experience neurospicy peeps suck at playing the field, men especially, women clock that you’re open to anyone because neurospicy & chill doesn’t really go together. If you’re open to anyone then it’s cheap, if you’re open to one person that you really get along with, then it’s important.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 19h

(I’m not saying don’t date someone you’re attracted to, but don’t make what you like about their body the reason you choose a relationship with them. Be with them because you actually enjoy talking to them.

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