
notmypieceofheaven
no bro you just gotta find the people who think the gay autistic creep thing is endearing. (the biggest obstacle of that is avoiding getting fetishized though…..)As a straight, creepy, autistic man I find it’s only really endearing when it’s the quirky things. When it comes to struggling to communicate, read a situation, behaving inappropriately in a situation, going on the 1000000th rant about a hyper fixation they don’t care about or find weird, etc. it stops being cute and starts being a major turn-off.
Naw I’ve found info-dumps adorable frequently. My ex was a math nerd. He talked about math enough that I started recognizing the history ant theorems enough to be able to talk and ask about it. Supremely weird for me because I am not really a math person but I liked him 🤷♀️ I’m also neurodivergent but I frankly enjoy my creepy reputation.
Hahaha hope is good though! Just try and focus on making friends vs shoehorning a relationship. Then when you find one person you want (not because of their looks) about maybe being more than friends. In my experience neurospicy peeps suck at playing the field, men especially, women clock that you’re open to anyone because neurospicy & chill doesn’t really go together. If you’re open to anyone then it’s cheap, if you’re open to one person that you really get along with, then it’s important.