In a situation like this, I would just ask my partner how they feel about it bc just bc your friend finds it cringe doesn’t mean your partner does. Me and my partner have done plenty of things that would probably be cringe to others, but it works for us so we don’t really care. I also think the context of the nickname cookie is too cute, so idk what the friend was on about 😭😭

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One of the worst mindsets you could have being ND is that you are obviously socially inept and others are your only trustworthy barometer NTs invented frat hazing and the electoral college they don't know shit

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talking from experience, please do not get into a friendship with somebody who tries to teach you how to be “normal”. they will drain you for all you’re worth and leave you with nothing

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Just ask him how HE would feel about it. Forget that bitch. She’s irrelevant 🤷🏾‍♀️

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That is so cute and thoughtful, please keep calling him cookie 🍪 🥹

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You know how much shit I wouldn’t have done in my life if I listened to other people? Fuck their need to be part of the crowd and be exceptionally you.

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I have stopped being friends with that person as of a couple years ago, i also didn’t get into the friendship in hopes of having someone NT be able to tell me what to do, we became friends when I was 9 and just stayed friends until I was around 16, then she moved away and realized life was easier when I didn’t have to think so hard about how I was socializing with people.

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