Neurodivergent on Yik Yak | i feel like i’m the worst roommate ever bc they’re super neat and im super not. and i feel like a crazy burden on them 😵‍💫 even though it’s literally none of their business if My Room is messy but the shared space isn’t

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Neurodivergent 23h

i feel like i’m the worst roommate ever bc they’re super neat and im super not. and i feel like a crazy burden on them 😵‍💫 even though it’s literally none of their business if My Room is messy but the shared space isn’t

Anonymous 22h

if they haven’t complained about your room, assume there aren’t any issues. sure you might wanna pick up a few things to make sure you can get around easily in it but if they haven’t verbalized that there’s a problem don’t worry about it

Anonymous 23h

Have they talked to you about your cleanliness?

Anonymous

#1 22h

no, but they’re my best friend so i know them well & ik they’re the type of person to suffer and judge silently 🙂‍↕️ i think i just feel bad cuz i know i want to be cleaner and they’re so naturally clean

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OP 21h

Definitely talk to them if they arent the type of person to be confrontational. But make it clear to yourself to differentiate your guilt relative to an actual problem vs your wish to be as clean as them generally