100% 😭.I also imagine that in response to feeling alienated by a society that’s really built for neurotypical folks, some folks that have it can romanticize it for themselves as a form of…coping? Then of course there’s those wild slogans that say stuff like “autism is a superpower”. Or how most of our depictions in media are of either lower support needs, super genius’s, etc. Like, I appreciate their attempt to lift folks like me up, but it can absolutely give the wrong impression to folks.🥲
that and its probably a function of how people see adhd and autism as a “benefit” of some kind, which is why people who romanticize either (or any mental illness) strike me as performative overall. They think people with actual adhd and autism use their diagnosis as a way to excuse all negative behaviors, so they romanticize the concept of living “without consequence”, and in turn romanticize the disorders they believe allow people to live that way- even though they definitely don’t, in reality