
Like i have to be a neutral party and i cant comment on things i feel are unjust w clients bc thats between them and the other party. I shouldnt hold and manage ppls feelings and now i have tools for how to encourage that in others, like i can defer in a healthy manner and compartmentalize shit now.
I had such a hard time previously to the point of ruining my relationships ab shit that isnt my business that id be neurotic about. Now i can let it go. I feel like my biggest issues in communicating are being challenged with my job in a manageable way and im growing as a result. Im flabbergasted