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So like when does me going out alone to my routine places and slightly posting abt it here and there by also always clearly alone ~ turn into that magic switch ppl say will happen and wanna be my friend? Bc it’s been like a year now
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Anonymous 4w

I'm sorry if this is annoying but it really really helps if you stop seeing "alone" as some sort of personal flaw - you'll be more relaxed for both yourself and anyone else

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Yea I try not to think on it. It becomes very forefront when I try to go smth fun or cool and I just know I would have more time enjoying it if I could have a convo or share a joke and laugh while doing it. Like these long drives to go spend a day solo but I could have been solo in my room all day again saving that money I need. But then it’s like, you go actually crazy doing that.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Western culture primes you to think that's unhealthy for various reasons but the activities themselves are perfectly good. It's not an opportunity cost to be by yourself

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