Neurodivergent on Yik Yak | My mom: “Tell me what I can do better!” Me: *tells her exactly what she does that harms me* My mom: “I don’t do that what are you talking about” Me: 😐

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Neurodivergent 8w

My mom: “Tell me what I can do better!” Me: *tells her exactly what she does that harms me* My mom: “I don’t do that what are you talking about” Me: 😐

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Anonymous 8w

Like mf you SAY you are willing to work with me and yet every single time I have tried to explain the issue to you you just deny it. Apologies without changed behavior mean nothing. And now it’s MY fault our relationship is bad because I get tired of rinsing and repeating this cycle where I explain the issues and then I get ignore or dismissed. So like just fuck me I guess then.

Anonymous 8w

“i’ve never done that.” why i oughta 👊

Anonymous 8w

Story of my life “I don’t do that I never did that! Stop lying for attention there’s something wrong with you mentally! Why can’t you just be normal. Why did you have to have adhd and anxiety?”

Anonymous

#1 8w

Yea for real it is beyond frustrating cause she gives every APPEARANCE of being an amazing mother. While at the same time never EVER admitting fault or changing her ways. Like god forbid she has the courage to actually admit to herself she made a mistake. Even the rare occasion when she does admit it she doesn’t actually try to fix the issue afterward. It’s hard as fuck to feel secure in my own perspective when her entire MO is basically “try and look like the best mother possible”

Anonymous

OP 8w

But it’s all a facade. She does things for me because they make HER feel like a good mother. When she tries to help in a way that is detrimental to me she argues with me about it. Or when I say I wanna do something on my own she gets mad about it.