My therapist thinks I’m autistic and tbh so do I. A part of me wants to be formally tested but the other part of me just wants to research as if I do and see if I can accommodate myself through life bc I would never want a formal diagnosis to be held against me (custody lawsuits and RFK Jr)
Autistic people don’t “become more obviously autistic” after diagnosed. Getting a diagnosis allows you to understand what you need and gives you tools to navigate your life better. People may choose to mask less as a form of self care. No one becomes more of anything after a diagnosis, though they may choose to express themselves more
having a diagnosis can make one realize they were masking and how exhausting it is, allowing them to demask and not force themselves to be something they’re not (neurotypical) and appear “more autistic” if you don’t want to get diagnosed that’s totally fine, but just a reminder don’t self diagnose and tell other ppl you have autism when you don’t have a medical diagnosis (self diagnosing is not healthy) no hate at all, i’m sorry if it came off rude i’m not good about tone over text
I never said I have autism and I have never told anyone that I do. Being suspicious about it isn’t the same thing as self diagnosing. But I’ve been asked from multiple people throughout my life, including by autistic people. so that makes me think that’s enough suspicion to go get tested if I wanted to. And yeah ik all about demasking, and sometimes I do have a feeling that could be what I’m doing. All I’m saying is if I do have it I don’t wanna know.