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STOP SAYING IM USING MY DISABILITY TO JUSTIFY EVERYTHING I DO I MENTIONED I WAS AUTISTIC TO YOU ONE TIME I ACTIVELY AVOID EXCUSING ACTIONS DUE TO MY DISABILITIES I JUST WANT YOU TO SEE ME AS A PERSON, NOT A DIAGNOSIS
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Anonymous 14w

I told my friend I had autism and now she treats me like autism… I get being mindful but there’s a BIG difference.

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Anonymous 14w

That’s why I don’t disclose my POTS and EDS to literally anyone. People say I use it as an excuse when I quite literally can’t control when a flare up happens

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Anonymous 14w

main friend that I talk to rn uses adhd/autism as verbs 💔 and also says “adhd/autism moment” a lot. I wanna tell them to stop but it’d be so awkward if I did 💀

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Anonymous 14w

It certainly doesn’t help when some people actually do use their disability to justify everything they do/don’t do.

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Anonymous 14w

A problem I have with my adhd is I swear to myself that I’m going to keep it to myself and not reveal it to a new group of friends or colleagues etc but also I CANT KEEP MY BIG MOUTH SHUT IF I HAVE A SECRET. Struggle is real.

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Anonymous 14w

I always try to stay away from telling people I have adhd cuz I don’t want that to be an excuse, but if I say I do, it’s to get people to understand why I have bad memory or trouble concentrating. But then people tell me “doesn’t look like you have adhd” or something like that and I get tired of having to get people to understand that adhd is more than just having trouble focusing

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

Bro I get it 😭😭 that shit’s rough

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

Dang that’s terrible

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 14w

Dude holy shit that sucks??? What the fuck omg 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

Fingers crossed my new job that I start tomorrow doesn’t act like that with me because I’m gonna disclose it then. The only reason I didn’t put it on my application is because discrimination go brrr

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 14w

Oh damn that’s terrible

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

That’s on living in the Deep South 😍😍😍😍

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 14w

Ohh so real man 🥲🥲🥰😘

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14w

tell them so that they can hopefully stop and then you two can grow as friends together!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 14w

go go gadget, fear of conflict (also I want to tell them in person so we don’t have a miscommunication)

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