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Dating/friends with other NDs is great unless you’re the only one who realizes that personal inconvenience is a necessary sacrifice in order to create, foster, and maintain connections. It’s exhausting always putting in that effort and never receiving it.
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Anonymous 5w

And that short term or in the moment personal inconvenience often makes life so much easier and more enjoyable down the line!

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Anonymous 5w

Do you have any examples?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Like if you don’t like going out but your friend is having a birthday dinner, inconvenience yourself to show up for that friend. It could be anything really

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Exactly! This never crosses their minds

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Oh yeah. That seems like common sense

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

You would think..

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