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do other ppl feel uncomfortable talking abt your identity here in college. i thought id meet more queer people but everyone ive met is not woke enough to understand binary gender spectrum and like yea idk.
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Anonymous 2w

Yeahhh, when we do pronouns and its a bunch of shes/hes and then it gets to me and I utter they/them. Fear of judgement

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Anonymous 2w

yep! i’m the only trans non binary person i know on my campus

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Anonymous 2w

Are you interested in art at all? I went to an art school and queer neurodivergent people were the norm by FAR, so you might be able to find people like that if you join some sort of art club or take an art class if that seems worthwhile?

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Anonymous 2w

no but also i went to like the queerest school in my area and i was an art majour so that definitely helped!

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Anonymous 2w

I’m very comfortable talking about my identity on campus There are a lot of queer folk on my campus and they all understand me I will say that the non-queer people vastly outnumber the queer ones but I don’t really interact with them lol

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Anonymous 2w

I think that you just have to be very adamant about it. Stand up for yourself. Be you don’t give in to their system!

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Anonymous 2w

I look queer enough to be asked my pronouns by a handful of people but still default to she/they cause I know they’ll still call and see me as a woman anyway since I don’t typically bind and don’t care enough to

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Anonymous 2w

I’m in my colleges engineering program, I kinda learned quickly it’s best to not be openly queer in those spaces

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Anonymous 2w

I never had to explain it to my friends. I told them my pronouns and they went with it. I met a very great group of people.

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Anonymous 2w

Yeah, as a music major, I tend to go incognito with my identity since there’s pretty much no one else who is queer in nearly all of my ensembles

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Anonymous 2w

Come to the PAC, all of us are gay af.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

the crazy part is i’m a music major, and almost nobody in any of the ensembles im part of is queer. maybe other form of arts have better representation

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Huh, yeah I was in band and choir in middle school and high school and I didn’t usually see as many queer people there as I did in my visual art classes. Then again that could be down to the visual arts classmates I had having more time to figure themselves out since I took those classes later on than the music classes, but still

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

deadass, atp i just rather get misgendered atp than feel excluded and judged the whole time

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