I don’t want to get emotional or anything, but do you realize how much it hurts to hear stuff like “oh yeah if you were afab then that means you’re just more trusted by women” as someone who hears that shit from transphobes daily? How dysphoria inducing it can be when all me and other transfems have ever wanted is to not be creepy males? I don’t know why I even bother with trans communities at this point. I hear the same shit in them that I do outside of them when I say I’m NB but was amab