My new boss/coworkers are they/theming me w/out me asking
I put my gender down as NB in the system (not public?) and told another coworker I go by a nickname, no mention of pronouns. I “look” like a cis woman. Or so I’m told. Am I in another dimension??
some people are just kind enough to stay neutral when they don’t know
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Anonymous#114h
Yes I do that and I even do it in general to new people I meet
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Anonymous#112h
Weirdly the only people they do this with are me and another explicitly nonbinary person— they assume ‘she’/‘he’ for all other people, strangers, customers, etc. I’m still really shocked!