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My new boss/coworkers are they/theming me w/out me asking I put my gender down as NB in the system (not public?) and told another coworker I go by a nickname, no mention of pronouns. I “look” like a cis woman. Or so I’m told. Am I in another dimension??
#IAmHappyAboutIt#QuestionMark
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Anonymous 18h

some people are just kind enough to stay neutral when they don’t know

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14h

Yes I do that and I even do it in general to new people I meet

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12h

Weirdly the only people they do this with are me and another explicitly nonbinary person— they assume ‘she’/‘he’ for all other people, strangers, customers, etc. I’m still really shocked!

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