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i look like every stereotypical straight girl so it’s impossible to have friends cuz i’m too normal for gay ppl and too weird for straight people. my friends don’t know abt my chosen name cuz if i tell them they’ll def judge me and i understand that
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Anonymous 6d

i shouldn’t be friends w them then but i would literally have no friends if i told them. i’ve already lost so many friends in the last 4 years for being nonbinary

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Anonymous 6d

I have a friend whos exactly the same, tbh if you’re open abt your experience with queer people (especially other trans/nb people) they’ll probs be happy to find out you share their experience even if it doesn’t “look the same” (tho everyone’s experience is different)

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Anonymous 6d

i just went to dinner w them and they’re so sweet and they know i’m a lesbian and don’t care but a lot of people are nice abt that cuz that’s “normal” yk. but being nonbinary is so woke yk like you never know how people will react to that even a lot of gay people are nonbinary phobic. especially like i said i look so not non binary yk i just know it’d catch them super off guard

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

You know 100% they would be against it? I would lightly and gradually bring up the topic to see how they feel. Like bring up a light topic about gender dynamics, maybe in straight or lesbian relationships and ease into mentioning nonbinary just generally to see their reaction. Also helps to calmly bring up different povs if they seem traditional just as a casual conversation, some ppl are traditional but open

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