I don’t know how to explain to cis men that the reason I don’t tell them if I’m AMAB or AFAB is because one makes them see me as a sex object and the other makes them see me as their equal and I want them neither to perceive me or be near me.
afabs are defo seen as sex object but amab nby’s are seen as “disgusting sisses” and shamed for their identity. Neither is good. Unless they don’t know you’re nobinary either
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Anonymous#15w
Yeah but I’ll never let em know my next love yknow?