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i love the fact that no matter how much i tell my coworkers i use they/them pronouns , they jus continue to call me she/her like told one today , she said “oh yah that’s hard to remember sometimes” and then continued to call me she :/ shits disrespectful
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Anonymous 9w

i once had a coworker like this and she kept commenting abt my deadname vs chosen name and i snapped at her in front of my boss one night 😬 my boss was like period go off but i recognize most bosses would not respond that well, sending sm love!!!!

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Anonymous 9w

That's so frustrating omg... like if i'm ever confused on someone's pronouns i just refer to that person by their preferred name its not that hard 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> leafchaser 9w

bro those kinda people piss me tf off like what business do you have saying that name hello?? and the people to have the audacity to ask what your deadname is when you mention it like , why would i tell you?????

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

this girl asked the day she met me and i was dealing w an org at my uni using my deadname (they searched for it bc it was only in my employment records for that org) and i was like yeah sure here it is bc you can find it online and she like took it as yeah im gonna keep talking to you abt how much better your deadname is sometimes?!! like girl bye

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Anonymous replying to -> leafchaser 9w

STOP bruh i hate it when theyre like “oh why’d you change it deadname is so much better” ok then you take it 😃

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

RIGHTTTTT

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