Dude- you don’t owe anyone androgynous looks or behavior. I’m really feminine some times, and sometimes I just look like a soccer mom minus the mom. I’m still nonbinary. And if you’re also nonbinary, you’re allowed to be feminine, masculine, or anything you want to be. Screw all gender roles. You owe nobody anything
but i still feel like im being extra yk? ig especially with the state of the world rn every conservative person says everything about me is wrong and im a nonbinary lesbian so i also have to deal with literal lesbians telling me im wrong and im not a lesbian. its like im excluded everywhere yk?