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Recently found out I’m agender, I haven’t changed anything appearance wise (I already dress gender-neutral but have a feminine face and long hair), wondering if I should tell people or just leave it be since it doesn’t affect me much but yeah?
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Anonymous 2w

if you want to tell people then go for it but if you’re fine with people not knowing and referring to you technically incorrectly then that’s also fine like i’m nonbinary but look and dress very femininely so always get she/her and i never correct people because i don’t care that much. the people close to me know but i don’t really care to explicitly tell other people

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Anonymous 2w

I mean I think I’ll always lean towards a feminine appearance so like it won’t make any big difference? I also don’t really care when people use she/her pronouns when referring to me? Even though my pronouns are actually they/he- lol 😆 I wish I had a more masculine kind of voice though I think it would sound cool but I don’t want any other side effects if I decide to take testosterone just for that reason, idk I’m not too well educated on that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

i have not looked into this much myself but you can voice train to make your voice lower and/or more masculine, if that’s something you’re interested in but don’t wanna take T. you could start looking into resources and videos for that! i’m glad you’ve figured this out for yourself! and i hope you’re able to decide if, when, and how you’d want to tell people in your life!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Interesting! I’ll look into it more, I would imagine that I would have to get a vocal coach for better results. Thank you a lot!!

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