I get where you’re coming from with this. It took a lot of separating feminine means female. Once I separated the two it became easier to express my feminine side and still feel confident as my enby identity regardless of what others thought. It takes time though

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the construct of gender and people deciding you arent “nonbinary enough” is so hard like just because someone presents as the societal norm of their agab doesnt invalidate their identity

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Exactly! Clothes don’t have a gender

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I agree. Growing up I loathed pink, frills, dresses, anything considered traditionally feminine. Now that I’ve come to terms with my identity as a non binary person, I actually do like the color pink, dresses and more traditionally feminine things (though frills still aren’t my thing)

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