they totally misunderstood your post. please don’t worry (easier said than done) bc they’re commenting on a completely wrong interpretation of your post. they might not have read it right. sounds like maybe in the past the commenter’s been in relationships like what THEY’RE describing, and is projecting it onto a completely different post. OCD is NOT someone “not being enough for their partner” or “having to change for their partner” or anything like that.

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