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Is it ever acceptable to ask a waitress or a waiter for their number or leave yours on the receipt?
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Yeah go for it why not
Eh only on very rare occasions
No
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Anonymous 14w

U can leave urs and they can decide after work what to do with it but don’t ask bc they are working

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Anonymous 14w

i once had a guy ask me in front of his preteen CHILDREN (i am 20) if i would like his phone number. dont be like that guy (dont ASK), but leaving your number is fun and always flattering

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Anonymous 14w

I had a waitress leave her number on a receipt once and it made my week 😵‍💫

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Anonymous 14w

I would leave yours and WALK OUT! That way the person can choose to contact you or not later.

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Anonymous 14w

Leaving on the receipt is fine but not asking

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14w

thats weird. ugh. for context im 21 i had this waitress last night who was super sweet even wrote thank you! on our receipt but i didnt do anything about it because i didnt wanna be out of place. so youd say its smarter to write my # on the receipt instead of asking for hers if i ever get her as a server again?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

Sometimes I just write thank you on the receipt if I liked the table. It gives a nice personal touch and can help show gratitude

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 14w

Yeah thats why I didn’t take that as an invitation to leave my number, she was just being nice I’m sure

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

Well yes, but I also agree with the other comments here. Leave yours on the receipt and let her have that choice without putting anyone in awkward situations where they feel pressured into anything

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

if you get her again, you should write a short note on her reciept if you want to put your phone number!! depending on both of your vibes its always nice to say something about her personality first rather than looks if u do write something. like call her sweet or kind or something. i would eat this up

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14w

yea id probably say ive had you a few times now and you’ve always been very kind and ialso think you’re pretty, my # is … thanks for helping us tonight

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