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am i wrong for being annoyed that my roommate has her friends over in the room until late (like past 11) almost every night including weekdays

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yes you’re wrong

no you’re not wrong

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Anonymous 2w

have you spoken to her about it? maybe she just doesn’t know how it is making you feel

Anonymous 2w

Definitely talk to her about it if you haven’t already

Anonymous 2w

obviously it’s her room too and she’s allowed to have people over but i don’t really appreciate that i can’t even hang out in my own bedroom at night because i feel weird just being in there while she’s hanging out with people i don’t even know

Anonymous 2w

Absolutely talk to her like how is she supposed to know if it bothers you if you never say anything? And then you’re just slowly resenting her more and more while she doesn’t even realize something’s wrong

Anonymous

OP 2w

plus it means i can’t get in the shower until like 11:45

Anonymous

OP 2w

mind you i never have my friends over because they all live in another dorm so it makes more sense to go there AND i try to respect that she might not want a bunch of randoms being loud in her room while she’s trying to chill. so it’s not even like i’m being hypocritical here 💀

Anonymous

OP 2w

you might just have to do the hypocritical thing and bring all your friends over there at an odd hour so she can step into your shoes

Anonymous

#2 2w

I don’t think you’re in the wrong, you have every right to set your boundaries (sorry forgot to add that)

Anonymous

#2 2w

no which i know is bad but to be honest i’m just a non-confrontational person and idrk how to approach it 😭 like we’re cool but we’re not really friends and we don’t actually talk much so idk how to even broach the subject. plus i’m not trying to make things hostile cause it’s really the only really bothersome thing she does so maybe i just put up with the one thing yk

Anonymous

OP 2w

i mean honestly I know it’s awkward but if you bring it up more casually it might help? Just like while you guys happen to be in the room with nobody else just do the whole “hey, not a super big thing, but do you mind if we talk about late night guests maybe?” and then talk about how you feel and it seems like you wouldn’t mind it if it wasn’t as often, I would mention that you’re not upset with her you just wanted to chat about it!